Your soul is like a sunflower—

rooted, resilient, and ready to rise.

Emily Finds Healing is a raw and powerful chronicle of one survivor’s path through trauma, grief, and loss, and her journey to reclaiming her story. It’s about finding light after darkness, strength after struggle, and growth in the most unexpected places.

Through these lived experiences, Emily offers not just her story, but a guiding light… a message that healing is possible, and that there is beauty in becoming.

I’m so glad you’re here.

If you’ve found this space, you’re probably carrying something heavy — maybe something you’ve tucked away, minimized, or never had the words for. You don’t have to tidy it up or make yourself smaller to fit in here. You’re welcome exactly as you are.

If you’re moving through trauma, grief, disappointment, or the quiet tension of holding your life together with shaking hands, I want this to be a place where you can stop bracing. A place where your story isn’t “too much,” where your feelings don’t need defending, and where you’re allowed to exhale.

Here, you’ll find honest writing, lived-experience truth, and tools shaped by the kind of healing you can’t fake. My hope is that something here lands softly but powerfully — that it makes you feel understood, less alone, and reminded that you deserve support, tenderness, and a path forward that doesn’t require you to carry everything by yourself.

My Sunflower Soul: A Memoir

My Sunflower Soul is the story of everything I wasn’t supposed to survive — the panic attacks that began in childhood, the cancer that tried to claim me, the gendered violence that stole my voice, the miscarriage that broke my heart, and the countless moments I had to choose to stay. This memoir is the raw, unfiltered truth of what it feels like to fall apart, and what it really takes to rise again.

I wrote this book for the ones who carry quiet pain and who are still searching for language for what they’ve lived through. These pages are a hand on your back — fierce, tender, and unwavering. They remind you that you are not alone, that healing is messy and sacred, and that even when life shatters you, there is a part of you still reaching for the light.

This is proof: you can bloom from the very places that tried to bury you.

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